Sunday, October 26, 2025

There is a graveyard in Manteca

 

There is a graveyard in Manteca

Where some of my ancestors sleep.

Pioneers.

 

When I was in school, learning about "manifest destiny"

And Indian wars and mountain men

And heard about the wagon trains

I wondered if that was how

Our family came out west.

So, I asked my father, 

"Did the Litchfields come west in a wagon train?"

I can see him sitting in his kitchen chair, laughing, holding a cigarette that he was smoking,

Still laughing, he said

"No, they waited until the railroad was built,

And then they came out west."

Oh. 

So the Litchfields waited until it was easy.

I was disappointed.

 

I have since learned that my father’s narrative was not wholly accurate

There were some Litchfields who came out west 

Before the railroad did

And they settled around Manteca, California, where they were farmers.

Later, more Litchfields did come west on the train

They were coming to join their relatives who were already living in the promised land of California

Farming in the fertile soil of the northern San Joaquin Valley

At that time, the railroad across the country had only recently been linked,

East to west, with the driving of the Golden Spike


A Litchfield family - mom, dad, and children

Boarded a train from their home in the Midwest to go to their family members, and a new life, in California.

People rode in one of three classes of passenger cars:

First class were the Pullman passenger cars

Third class were cheaper, for immigrants/emigrants

Sometimes, not usually, people rode in boxcars.

According to a family history, that’s where those Litchfields rode

But they were going across the country on a train in a few days

Instead of spending months in a wagon train, with all its hardships, illnesses, and deaths

So that must have been an improvement, don't you think?

Except

On the way

One of the children became ill

And died.

 

When the family finally arrived in Manteca

They were greeted by their family members

And they were able to lay their child to rest.

I suppose it was good to have a grave to visit,

Instead of leaving his remains under a mound of dirt somewhere on the prairie

So yeah, that was better than going by wagon train.

 

It is common knowledge that many children died all through history,

From various causes

Go to a nineteenth century graveyard, where you will find the graves of multiple children from the same family

 But then Dr. Alexander Fleming came back from vacation in 1928 and noticed a mold growing in a petri dish,

And the mold was killing bacteria

So he fooled around with it, named it penicillin, but abandoned the project in 1929.

Then

In the late 1930s

Two scientists at Oxford University, Howard Florey and Ernst Chain, began working with penicillin again

And had production of the drug figured out by 1943

After which it saved the lives of thousands of soldiers who would have died without it

A miracle drug! 


Before penicillin it was not uncommon for children to die

Happened all the time,

Just like women died in childbirth all the time

Death was a common part of life

Maybe you didn’t expect all your children to make it to adulthood

Or yourself to make it through pregnancy and birth.


But I put it to you that the people left behind never became insensible to their losses

They grieved as profoundly as we do

When someone they loved died.

A child, a spouse, a sibling, a cousin, a best friend

Grief made them wail a howl that began in their bellies

And consumed their whole being.

Just like you and me.

 

More children grow to adulthood now,

Fewer women die in childbirth

At least in some places

But death, after all, is what we all have in common

And if you live long enough

You will see a lot of it

And lose a lot of people who were the landscape,

the environment,

even the furniture

Of your life.

 

So yes

S0me of the Litchfields came west on the train

They had it easy compared to the people who traveled

By horseback or wagon or on foot

Right?